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SHE WON’T NAG YOU
Similar to NWSO’s "a lot of women are longwinded and tend to ramble" comment under the "HE'LL LISTEN" section of his post, my next statement will sound sexist. Most men I know will say that one thing that drives them crazy about women and can often lead to a breakup is that women nag too much. Male egos are extremely fragile so any consistent shot towards that ego is a no-no, ladies, because you will drive him away quick, fast and in a hurry. A man is not trying to hear being constantly reminded of his faults or shortcomings; they also don't want to hear you constantly complaining about them not noticing your new dress or hair, or that they forgot to put the toilet seat down.
When a woman is in love with her man she will learn to look beyond his flaws and dislikes. Of course, she won't ignore them, but she will learn how to deal with them and will often find ways to subtly "hint" about things that might make her unhappy. She'll do it so sweetly that he'll go ahead and do it.
For example, a girlfriend may be really annoyed about her man spending more time with his boys instead of her. Rather than nag him about it, she may offer to host a game night at her place where his boys are invited so that he gets to hang with his boys, but she also gets that time with him, just on her terms.
SHE’LL COMPROMISE FOR YOU
I've noticed in a few of my past relationships, and in conversations with both single male and female friends, that one of the big issues or sore spots in the relationship (besides a lack of communication) was a lack of compromise. Oftentimes, a person will enter a relationship thinking primarily about what it is they want and expect of the person they’re dating.
I remember one guy I had gone out with a few times who told me that his future wife needed to be a stay-at-home mom, that she would take/pick up their kids from school, and before he got home she had to bathe and feed the kids, have the kids’ homework done, have his dinner and bath ready, and then give him a BJ after dinner (that may or may not lead to other physical activity). I think he told me this on our second date. Being the debater that I am, I argued the case for women like myself who have an advanced degree that they would not like to see go to waste, and how they might want to have their own money and not be solely dependent on their husband to provide for the family, and that how in today's economy a single-income family is basically an anomaly. Dude didn't budge to my argument and said that if the woman wasn't down for what he wanted then he wasn't going to be with her.
Now some folks may feel that this dude knew what he wanted and was going to go for that but IMHO I believe that if you're in love with someone you'll compromise. Using the same scenario that this guy gave me, a compromise a woman might give would be to stay home the first five years of the child's life until they’re of formal school age, or maybe she'd ask for a flexible work schedule where she'd be able to work from home three days a week so she could be there for her children the majority of the time. Believe you me, rather than throw the whole relationship away and what you may have built over time, a woman in love will try to find a compromise to most situations/issues/roadblocks in her relationship in order to "make things work."
SHE’LL TRUST YOU
Every day more and more of us are hearing/reading about couples who have broken up because someone in a relationship found out the other person was cheating. When you inquire how the person found out it's often over a text message that the person discovered, an email they checked in their mate's account, a FaceBook account they broke into, looking at phone logs and calling the numbers listed, or them following their mate for a day to see who they met up with. A lack of trust is often the death of any relationship.
Now, I'm not saying to go into any relationship blindly, because you should always be cautious, but eventually when you're in love (and again this is MHO) ladies will learn to trust their man (at least they need to). You shouldn’t assume that if your man goes to a bachelor party that he's automatically sleeping with or getting a BJ by a stripper.
Trust combined with communication, listening, and some of the other things I mentioned earlier make for a healthy and truly loving relationship. If a woman learns about her man—his interests, likes/dislikes, listens to him, doesn't nag him, and learns to compromise—there’ll be very little reason for him to go elsewhere (unless he's just a complete loser). So there's no need or reason for a woman to go snooping around or being distrustful of her man. If you really love your man you'll learn to trust him just like you would expect him to trust you.
Do you only cook for someone you’re feeling or is that just part of your game? How long do you wait before cooking for someone? How many women would be willing to get into sports for their man? How many fellas would appreciate a woman that was into sports? Do you appreciate someone that’s willing to sacrifice their time to do something you’re interested in? Are you guilty of being a nag? Do you agree that communication is better than nagging? Are you willing to compromise for the right person? Do you think there can be true love without trust? What signs do you use to tell if someone is genuinely in love with you? What did you think of MsBlackman’s version of NWSO’s post?
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